Being a Libra my emotions took over and I texted him to say hi, still nothing, so I sent him a nice message and still nothing. But i just made it worse on me. WebWhy do aquarius disappear? This disappearing thing they do has got be one of the most perplexing and annoying things they do, even though I completely understand the need for "alone time" and "freedom" because I'm a lot like this myself, but the other thing he does that makes me, like others, want to slap the snot out of him, is him not replying when you can be in the middle of a texting conversation, and POOF, he's vanishes no into thin air, and you have no fricken idea WHY or what the heck is going on, and when you do ask you get no reply, which is just so immature and disrespectful, or at least that's how it comes across, and this just drives me nuts, nuts, nuts!!! I dated an Aquarius man for 6 months. im sagitarius i cant just sleep while vacation lol! And you wanna get as far away from them as you can. Ugh, I am baffled and sometimes want to give up! But does he miss me? The sex is awesome and I'm so hooked on it that its hard for me to dump him. This might seem weird or even off putting to you, but it makes perfect sense to an Aquarius. we couldnt reist the connection we kissed several times and es we had sex twice. But when the person I am spacing from starts to cling to me because of the break, I get worried. By understanding someone and how they view things it's easy to make yourself more attractive to them. he likes black joke! Ciuma was last seen on Feb. 13. When he should be the one saying he loves me? If it doesnt get better soon, get out because it probably wont. I am courteous and timely in my responses (text communication) however, I find this mental confusion uninteresting. It has been awesome, like a Harlequin novel. I called and left 1 message, a couple of texts and an email..and no reply. i mean his laptop on cus he wants me to speak with his mum, and he fall asleep and i got so mad at him! It's kind of depressing to me, actually. An introduction to synastry and compatible astrology. He wants to spend more time with his friends, 6. I had known for sure that he liked me but couldn't ask me out. We don't like making train wrecks, but often do it anyway. I am baffled about him. His actions says otherwise like he meets me on weekends & the very fact that he's there with me & he shares all that he did thru out the day even wen I dint ask him, shows that he likes my company but again wht nxt, i.e. But i know he is not the man 4 me. Its useless to give him any restrictions or tell him he cant go out with them because hed always rather choose his pals over a relationship with you especially if you try to forbid him from hanging out with them. It's easy to do. By Tanasia Kenney. In relationships, they study the little things you do and connect it on a grander scale. HUH? He could do what he wanted but when it came to me it was so different. So, let the aquarious go and he will start working for you but the SECOND you show emotion, he is so desperate for it and attention they almost sabotage everything for more of it. The information I read is good but sometimes I'm use to him but this right here what he is doing is so hurtful. But to find out he was cheating on me in the end. Despite my distance, I receive updates as to their whereabouts. he used to smile when he came to see me and bow he has a straight face. I held in alot to avoid fights and because I knew with Aqua's u cannot have an emotional break - down, they run! and then the last thing i heard was that he can't wait to hold me and that was 3 weeks agowell guess what? I find this disappearance act so weird because I'm not used to it and I don't know what to think of it. yeah mine also said 'of course i want to see you, but at least u'll miss me more' Lord knows what that means?? I have sent something similar b4 (just after my last posting) when I simply asked to meet up with him but also asked him to let me know if he did not want to take things any further which created a turning point as he did want to meet and rather than him blowing me out we got together a few times and everything seemed wonderful up until last week! The sex was the bomb! How? What will be will be I guess. He is my comfort zone, and funny. Another thing that happens when an Aquarius man starts losing interest in you: he wont care about your feelings anymore. I waited an hour and 15 minutes, and where I park you can't see my car when you drive in, so he didn't know I was there, so he drives up, and I had just put a short note in his door, and I get out to get the note because I figured we would talk so why leave it, well right behind him was his new "girlfriend!!" Tiny I really do understand how you must be feeling even though I have only been dating mine for a few months I am already experiencing the impact his behaviour has on me - it's just this whole detachment thing that really gets me. Many thanks and good luck to you all. I never contacted him @ all. From naughty to nice, my reviews of ebooks on dating, love, sex and more. I thought it was cute at 1st. Drop off his radar While youre spending time apart, you need to go the distance and fully commit to it. Give them feedback for thats what they thrive on, social interactions. But what about when he hurts me? Hell regret pulling away from a person he can always count on and will most likely be back to his old self soon enough. I was absolutely horrified! Cant handle it anymore wierdo deluxe..My girlfriend later n told me no way can you marry him he is a total control freak she said I act totall didfferent around him like walking on egg shells , and that scared her that I am so paranoid that he might not like somthingbe yourself she saidthe light bulb went on with that,,,outta here,,I have a very nice cancer barking up my tree 13 years younger think Ill go me ME for ahilewink wink. Not because I'm possessive or clingy, though I am emotional. Is it you who did something wrong or is he the one who should take the blame and apologize to you? even though we were just friends he had a tendency to go off for months at a time and i wouldn't hear from hom or see him. I am used to men chasing me, not me contacting a guy to see if he wants to meet up. I know when it happens, it will be awesome. Aquarians like to go with the flow and switch subjects. he's just another player, and seeing him with another girl confirmed this. Oh so you know! I really want him to be a part of my life & i want to be there for him too. We both admitted that we started having emotional connections with eachother. our connection was unbelievable. How do you think I ended up here :)? But like Taylor said, If you make us feel guilty, we'll leave you. Copyright 2023 CelestialToday | Powered by Astra WordPress Theme. You rarely hear them say, I love you, in person because they dont like showing their vulnerable side. I have been with an aquarious for 6 years. See ya! she needs emotional intimacy, etc, etc. But, he wants me to be his best friend. In some cases, it can seem as if hes pulling away from you, when in reality he simply doesnt know how to express his feelings. and now He is cold and distant. As soon as they start their distancing act just turn the tables and do a disappearing act - and mean it. So yeah, plenty of mixed messages/signals. He is supposed to come to a wedding with me this weekend and the day he texted me, he said not to invite a girlfriend, I would hear from him by end of week before wedding. Don't know what to expect I really want him but feel like he's wasting my time I shoul just leave him forever & just grieve him away already. He pushed me away. He'll think this in the kindest, most rational way ever. We just on other paths. We share subjects that impact your daily life and we primarily discuss and write about all things related to relationships, breakups, mental health, astrology and much more. after he purposed me?? Lol. U would think being friends 1st, things would have been great in a relationship. But he kept inviting me over to hang out on the preface of "work stuff" he'd walk around w/ no shirt on, show me all these pictures of his past, he even made me a special dish of his and brought it to me. And I tried that. Playing the same game with a 50 year old Aquairus who act like a little lost boyHe found me searched me out said I was his soul mate wanted to maary me, moved me back to Califonia, and 3 month after we moved back he lost his son, and said he needed time away which i gave him he moved out and comes and goes when he pleases , comes to do his laundry takes me to the beach make love and than poof i don hear from him for a weekWhen I just show up at his hide out he says I am freaking out and do it to myself. By mature, I mean that he is marriage minded and looks for his future instead of mindless fun that other guys seem to have. But he did the same thing to me calling my friends asking them where i am if i didn't answer my phone. It wasn't a bad relationship, it was a bit boring (Im a Leo) because his Venus in in Cap, which means grounded & very serious. I met an aquarius man we went out for about a week had the most amazing time together. After the first couple months I expressed to him that he wasn't making enough time for me, and I backed off a bit. So now that I told him I feel stronger feelings towards him he seems to have dipped on me. IM not calling or texting him either. ALSO, my 4th house is also in Aquarius also, heightening my respect for Aquarius in general. I am totally lost and confused. As I mentioned earlier, he cherishes his freedom and believes that hell lose it once he starts a romantic relationship with someone. 32 minutes ago Texas-based Corner Bakery Caf files for Chapter 11 bankruptcy. He went home and things have been different every since, he still tells me he loves me and I am his best friend but I catch him lies all the time. I have put him in GOD hands and he will be deault with. )The best way, again this is just my experience and I've known other things to work at different times, you just have to try you're best to read the situation, is to remind the Aquarius why he picked you in the first place. Ok then, no problem. My name is Anna Kovach, and Im a Relationship Astrologer. Mine was always has been and says he never slept with anyone else, he just had no one to listen. I never bothered to ask why, nor have i made any attempts to reach out to him no more then he has. I, personally, always stay very affectionate, even when I don't want the relationship to move too fast. Omg, this iscel exactly what im going through.The Aquarius thats putting me through this is my ex.We not together anymore but he keep bugging me about us Getting eachother name tattoed..that also confuses me, I met aquarian man who did nothing but showed me enthusiasm and interest buti wasnt interested because i found him quite ude, abrupt, dominatind and unappealing but saw him every day as he was doing work on my home with my uncle. Pay more attention to what he does. If you ignore an Aquarius man when he disappears, hell be back . One minute you'd swear they want to spend every minute with you, which we know is not the case, and the next they treat you like the babysitter or some mere acquaintance! Ladies, if he doesn't marry you or commit to you with in 2 years. That was sooo mean of him and cruel. (aquarious)We broke up from mid Dec-end of march. I ignored him and finally send him a long text telling him that I dont do games. All our friends who've seen us together say there's undeniable attraction between us. It's really cool. breaks my heart? ( I am an aries ) and my patience has been tested to a degree where I have questioned my own sanity !! The main reason for an Aquarians vanishing act is due to their need for space & freedom. I love my friend. so, i decided i'd had enough of his juvenile behavior and actually told him i didn't want to be friends anymore. but the weird thing is he told me he couldn't be friends with me because he love me to much. It will be unusual for you to be chasing someone. Just be sure to always trust your gut with how you feel. If these questions are bothering you right now, you shouldnt lose hope because Im here to help you. He ignored my calls & replied only to a few texts when he felt like. A few days ago, he thanked me for my patience, and let me know it goes a long way. Heya thanx fr sharin the experience but I'm so confused (typical Aries that I am).Jst replyin to ur post and wud wana letcha kno that we still do each otha on the weeknds:) but I think nw I can say we have jst entered into this state of being frnds too(which is good I guess). An introduction to synastry and compatible astrology. He has been distant but drill there and when i wanted to see him before he turned on me.. he asked me why so even though i respond to his messages with no more than a simple answer and I answer his calls and do not indulge in conversation.. I let him down gently, because it came out of nowhere, and he kept coming. He persued me, was all over me for the first 8 mths. Thing is, if he told me he doesn't it's be easier to move on. I was the reason for our problems. The only thing is I am in a LDR .I've seen him a few times ..but just as a true Aquarious he does his disappearing act on and off and I am getting really sick of it! we were friends then intimacy started, Sex was unbelievable. They will send txt's to you one minute saying how he can't wait to see you and the next he pulls a dissapearing act while he's dating others. Also, keep in mind that your goal is to make him feel your absence, so practice self-restraint and resist the urge to pick up when he calls or texts you. The attraction is there but we have ZERO in common. I also felt like he was holding back from letting me in. Ive decided if he never calls me again, and after I see him next week (I frequent where he works) if he still doesnt call me or offer an explanation, he is going to get a nicely worded letter about his behavior and I will close the door on this chapter. I'm just trying to get on with things as if he's never coming back, even though deep down I hope he does because I did actually think he could be mr right. After that week was up, I never heard or saw him again til seven months later. He may mean well but don't talk about if it you're not about it. So, they are very unpredictable men. He is on a mission with something at the moment, which started a couple of days b4 we last met, and he asked me to help him with it so we have been in constant contact during the last week for that reason BUT nothing else seems to be happeening. I was hospitable due to this, but he grew on me and asked my me, yet uncle to give me his number, as he did nothing but goes on about me all the time i was told, however, i ***eventually*** gave in. and I think I will do better to date other men for a while and leave him alone. He started a new work project and then started to disappear for a week at a time. I'm a Cancer with an Aquarius Moon who dated an Aquarius with a Pisces Moon and I had him on an emotional roller coaster. He had 2 long relationships be 4 me & guess who caught all the hurt they did to him. Massive hunt for missing NC 11-year-old faces challenges Parents 'clearly' know more about missing 11-year-old, police say Mother, stepdad arrested for not reporting 11-year-old's disappearance I have been having the exact problem at the moment, I have been seeing an aquarius guy who is 10 years older than me for a while now and he has on and off started ignoring my texts and wont get back to me for 24 hours or more but when he decides to finally text back he wants to see me. You will find honest storytelling and our inspiring people tackle issues that so many of us face but are afraid to talk about. WTH? Learn more. I never denied the attraction but i don't want to do anything bout it because i don't want to spoil our friendship. But the moment that he seemed to care he backed off. Liking you wont be that difficult for him but falling in love with you seems to be a bit harder. Like A Vampire!! He never opened up, even after years of being together. I just will never understand him. if I want him fr keeps and I want him to fall fr me too??? According to Detroit police, David Ciuma left his house on I'm lost I want to beg and ask him why but you know how that will go. i felt i had found a friend forever. Another possible reason why an Aquarius man pulls away when in love could be that hes afraid of commitment. He never acted like it. As an aquarian woman I am currently dating an aquarian man but with my confidence and indepence, it swifts him off his feet. He wants to be with a woman who can keep up with him, who thinks outside of the box, and who isnt afraid to break out of her shell. Hi there! WebFor Aquarius men, noticing your absense can have a stronger effect than if you bend over backwards trying to get into their good graces. But he still didn't fight back. He did the disappearing acts & standing me up.But despite all that we still hung out & things were good cause we were friends. Rebecca Jones and her family told WOWT their dog, Bella, had been missing for about three weeks. Aquarians are often outcasts. Then, once youre ready and understand the basics, you candig deeperinto his heart, mind, and soul with myAquarius Man Secrets series probably the most in-depth look into an Aquarian mans mind ever published. They value their independence far more than most signs do. For the first time in years you feel alive. Keep ya posted. Only to just turn it off. he drives me crazy when he just dissapear :( Im not like the typical cancer im fun,outgoing,very indepandant, and i love going out im modern.. So if you notice that your Aquarius man is pulling away, just take a step back and give him the space that he needs as long as its not doing any harm to your Trouble is they must surely lose so many good women. Like I havent heard from him since last week when I gave him a gift for his bday. and we agreed to meet and he called me but he was a bit 'I do not know what time and when I could meet you and what do you think' and I said I do not know either, when you know let me know and I could tell he said goodbye with an attitude and then he never called me back, 4 days ago, does that mean he will never call me again? They will throw you over for the next new love interest. but then yeah he bought me bunch chocolate and tedy bear and flower with poetry i mean aquarians like casanova they r very good at words! Of course, one of the most direct and quickest ways to find out why hes pulling away from you is to talk to him. All I know is that, as an Aquarius, I think I know what you are talking about. Its very easy to surrender yourself to those negative thoughts that hell leave you forever but maybe its not your fault that hes pulling away from you in the first place. You have to mimic them. King William Fair takes place from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. on April 29. Should I leave him alone to 'potter' and may be wait 4ever to hear from him or should I send the txt to find out where I stand now? and sometimes I feel very confident about that fact. . Argh! How to know if you're with your soulmate. You have to give him some room to miss your presence, so show him what his life would look like if you werent there to help him or comfort him when he needs you. I have a friend that fits exactly what you described. Did he suddenly become distant? Sending an Aquarian dozens of messages a day, saying how you miss him, will overwhelm him and hell pull away. Perhaps he needs some alone time because he feels exhausted from talking to other people all day long. Dont spend ur precious time on them, u deserve better, u all sound like very sweet ladies. Even tattooed my name on his arm in our first 6 months of dating. You just have to remind him of that every once and awhile. Which not to brag but he will NEVER find another woman like me. I haven't called him since 2 weeks. I have kids not by him the family is rather close. his need for freedom and not wanting anything but friends. I've been dating my aqua for 8mnths and it has been one rocky ride. I should have known better but, he has disappeared on me again- doh! do i back off as well? Hehas been single for one year now (he broke up with his girlfriend about a year ago). tricky i know since sex is a big part of this awesomeness. Theres only one reasonable explanation behind an Aquarius man disappearing act: cowardness. This guy found me after 11 years at a social networking website just when I had forgotten about him completely. Questions about where I've been, what I've been doing, why I haven't responded, just make me feel bad and usually make me lie, so I don't make you feel bad, too. lol. Or maybe I am just hopelessly in love with this man!!! He will call or text like everything is ok Not speak a word about the argument and him being silent.. An Aquarius man loves a woman who is busy, Etc etc. I have a lot of frustration and hurt feelings and I want to express them, but at the same time I don't want to give him the satisfaction o seeing the effect his disappearing act has had on me. My Aquarius Man Dissapears And Reappears All The Time. But seriously, do you see how rediculous this all sounds? I truly know how you feel, as even now I miss him. But anyway will he come back around? After all, he doesnt want to be with someone who always contradicts him unless hes testing his own limits. Way back in Mar this year, I mentioned I like him to which he said that he likes me as a friend and nothing more. He enjoys getting your love messages but too many of them will make him feel suffocated. Yes he swept me off my feet, everyday saw me, took me out, called all day, he told me he loved me first and wanted to marry me, etc. Frustrating, but very intelligent goodlooking guy with a heart of gold, can't speak on the sex yet, we haven't had it, a first of any man I've ever dated. He later cofessed that I kinda look fragile, innocent,and that im always happy, and he was afraid he might destroy that. There is always talk of marriage, putting a ring on my finger (even how many carats), taking me on trips, the whole nine yards, but nothing has come of it, haven't seen jack and I'm okay with thisjust that I sense a lot of talk but not a doer in that aspect so I take everything he says with a grain of salt and not rely heavily on the "good" talk because I know it's just talk, but that mess has got to stop, I hate bs. I started talking to an Aquarius man online 20 months ago. and, when he came back into the picture he'd want to pick up exactly where we left off, as though he'd never left. When im with him he is affectionate and I can tell he has something for me, but its like a rollercoaster! Unlike Pisces men, who are great at communicating their emotions, Aquarius men dont articulate theirs very often. Just be patient and try to stay 2 steps ahead of him. He acted as if he didn't care to lose me at all. 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