It was so brutal I thought I was dying, Merryn, Glamour magazines 2012 Woman of the Year, recalled in an interview with the Asbury Park Press. I really open lawmakers' eyes when I share this with them. Sexually abused and raped from age 6-8 by an adult neighbor Erin was threatened to stay silent by her abuser. I feel it would have given me the voice that these men took from me. Merryn found her voice at 13 when her younger sister said the words she'll never forget: "Brian's gross!" It turned out cousin Brian was abusing Merryn's little sister, too. In 2013 Governor Quinn signed Erins Law mandating child sexual abuse education in all Illinois public schools. I can spend the rest of my life hating him, or I can forgive him and do something positive about this thing that continues to be a negative thing in my life, she said. Every other headline horrifies the public with another predator taking not just advantage of a child but everything from a child. Get the best experience and stay connected to your community with our Spectrum News app. Alaska Dispatch: Thank you for reminding us that abuse happens across all socioeconomic conditions. I remember walking out into the parking lot and feeling this sense of relief.Seven months later I would return back for the first time since my interview to begin a group with other girls who were survivors in January 1999. CAC The place Erin Merryn broke her silence The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County Illinois In 1998 seventy five thousand six hundred and forty seven abused children were seen in one hundred and thirty nine Children's Advocacy Centers in America. Merryn: I didn't expect a response back from my cousin because my letter was very harsh filled with so much anger and rage. Merryn: What caused me to come forward was unfortunately finding out that my little sister was also being abused. She was abused. Merryn: I have witnessed some lawmakers come in voting against the bill who got on their mic after hearing me testify and (told) me they had all planned to vote against this bill and that my testimony changed their mind. No one is allowed in the bathroom with you not even your friend. That's where, 14 years ago, a then-13-year-old Erin Merryn first . She wanted him to know how much his actions had affected her life. In 2013, Governor Quinn signed it into law requiring Illinois schools to teach it every single year. So, instead of speaking out, the only person she told her thoughts and feelings to was herself in the form of a little pink diary. She told them that, growing up in Illinois, she had experienced tornado drills, fire drills and bus drills; was taught about stranger danger and eight ways to say no to drugs through D.A.R.E., but no one ever taught her how to protect herself from sexual abuse and what to do if a family member or friend molested or raped her. Please join Erin Merryn in her crusade to protect children from sexual abuse and donate to help her with her travel expenses today! So many children will be protected because of her." The first episode began on a warm May night in 1991. Little did I know by moving I was getting that much closer to my next abuser. MORE: Moms and dads, can we talk about stranger danger? The legislation, "Erin Merryn's Law," (S.6182 Klein/ A.8993 Dinowitz), would require schools to make a change to their . --TV host Katie Couric, 1992, 2002, and 2006 Woman of the Year.After suffering years of sexual abuse for six years of her childhood Erin broke her silence when she was 13 at a Children's Advocacy Center. Forgiving him did not mean what he did was right, she stressed. Ensuring all New Jersey kids have access to age-appropriate sexual abuse prevention education will end the cycle of abuse before it begins. Merryn: This wasn't bad luck. After her parents decided to move Erins abuse ended but only brought her that much closer to her next abuser, an older teenage cousin who lived down the street from her. Visit Amazon.au's Erin Merryn Page and shop for all Erin Merryn books. CBS News' Reena Ninan visited a public school in Illinois to see how the school teaches kids about safe . In the wee hours of the night, Ashley's uncle "Richard" (not his real name), who lived in the house with his niece, appeared in the darkened room. The only message I got as a child came from my abusers and that was to stay silent or else, she said. Merryn cautions that you can never just go by how many registered sex offenders are in your area. Her dad had to sit down and have a tough conversation with his sister, and denial followed. will then mail or hand the parents or responsible adult family member the Megans Law information. So far, her story has inspired many kids to speak up about abuse, and that has led to more predators put behind bars. I wish I could say that Erins story is uncommon, but that is far from the truth its happening right here in our own backyard, Bucco said. Little did I realize, that by moving, I was getting that much closer to the next perpetrator in my life, she said. The areas covered by your swimsuit are not for anyone to be touching, unless mommy and daddy are helping you with a bath. Nightmares and flashbacks continued, and she started harming herself. COLUMBUS, Ohio - Erin Merryn, a Chicago-area resident behind an Ohio bill that would require public schools to provide age-appropriate sexual abuse prevention instruction, told a Senate. I guess what I was trying to ask is, why do you think your abusers chose you instead of some other girl as a target? A therapist urged her to get her anger out on paper by writing her cousin a letter detailing how she felt, and after she wrote it, she was to rip it up, burn it or otherwise throw it away. Merryn, then 6, was excited about her first sleepover with her kindergarten classmate Ashley. Throughout her school years, Erin Merryn of Schaumburg, Ill., received plenty of lessons in the dangers her elders thought she could encounter during her childhood. Around the time we were getting ready to move away, my friend had a birthday party. Are you afraid you will lose business? Merryn says starting when she was six, she was sexually abused by a neighbor, then at 11 by an older cousin. It is when they hear my story of how I was raped, and how my abusers controlled the situation by being the only ones talking to me about what was happening, that they "get it." "(It) brings me back to remembering being six-years-old being abused. ThediaryIkept my secrets locked away in, where I lost my innocence, I turned into a book mysenior year of high school called Stolen Innocence, because thats whathappened to me, Merryn said. Learn More. He cornered her in basements, bathrooms and bedrooms, always reminding her that she shouldn't bother telling anyone because no one would believe her. As a young child from 6 to 8 (years old), when the neighbor was abusing me, he warned me if I told anyone he would come get me; he knew where I lived. The words of my cousin began haunting me. Do not use the phrases good touch and bad touch, says Merryn. While the party was going on, and my friend's mom was in the house, this neighbor cornered me in a bathroom and abused me. One day, a particular entry she wrote caught her eye. That is what brought Erin to tell her story at Metamora Township High School last Monday afternoon, during an all-school assembly. But nobody asked those important questions. Erin said the abuse stopped after her sister spoke up about her own abuse. These days hes almost 9 and I dont really tag along to play dates anymore, but every time I drop him off, I tell him, if you have to use the bathroom, lock the door and have privacy. Read more about Erins Law at www.erinslaw.org, or about Erin herself at www.erinmerryn.net. Erins ongoing abuse with her friends uncle was over. The same year I was born in 1985 was the first year the development of the first CAC in America was born in Alabama. Alaska Dispatch: Silence is a powerful way in which sexual abuse is kept secret and is perpetuated. [8] In November 2009, she published a second book, Living For Today, discussing earlier abuse by her neighbor. Merryn advocates for sexual abuse victims. But where were the eight ways on how to "get away and tell today?" Someone should have known in my earlier years when I was being abused by an adult neighbor. Alaska Dispatch: When you decided to confront and start corresponding with your cousin, how did it go at first? Children learn all kinds of safety lessons in schools, like how to deal with natural disasters, fires and strangers. A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Erin has worked diligently to lobby every state to pass Erin's Law, beginning with her home state of Illinois in 2009. Erin Merryn is an author, activist, speaker, wife, and mom to young human children and a fur baby named Bailey. Is there anything about your life circumstances that you think made you a target? Sunshine and a few clouds. Download it here. Merryn spoke to members of the Ohio SenatePrimary and Secondary Education Committee of how she was sexually abused as a child. "Erin Merryn's Law," a bill that will create a task force to study child sexual abuse in West Virginia, passed the state Senate unanimously on Monday. Its word for word my diary from the ages of 10 until my senior year of high school. He was given probation and counseling., Forgiveness is what set me free, she said. Erin Merryn detailed the treatment and help she received from the Children's Advocacy Center, which has 900 locations across the U.S.A. - a safe environment for children to share their stories of abuse. A voice that flies across America and speaks at many of these CAC's that exist taking people back to my experience at the CAC and this time sharing all the details because I no longer carry the shame but instead a voice bringing awareness to these incredible centers that give children a new start on life and a path toward healing. He did respond admitting what he did and saying he is using his past to not make the same mistakes now in his life. What factors came together for you to be able to not only overcome what happened, but to also thrive? Its somebody they know and trust.. Do you know if it was as healing for him as it was for you? Read more about Erin Merryn on her Erin's Law Facebook page and her website. But only 1 in every 10 sexually abused children ever tell anyone about it. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her . He doesnt sleep out ever. I tell parents the best way to talk to kids about this is through the swimsuit lesson, Merryn said. Illinois is the first state by law to mandate Erins Law. A safe touch could be a high five or hug and an unsafe touch is someone touching you in the areas covered by your swimsuit, or your private parts, Merryn said. In December 2015, President Obama signed the federal version of Erin's Law providing federal funding toschools to provide this education. It brings it all back to the surface. I will not stop until children in all 50 states are protected from sexual abuse.". Im glad he gets body boundaries and safety and Ill be pounding it into his head as long as I can. EN RU CN DE ES. No one will believe you, Erin. Stolen Innocencewas published soon after. I was a senior in high school when I published my first book, my childhood diary where I kept my secrets of abuse with my cousin locked away. Eleven states have passed the legislation. Now I have somebody I love and trust abusing me," Merryn said. He continued to abuse her on and off for nearly two years, she says, often at holidays and celebrations with her close-knit extended family. It was the first federal bill passed funding sexual abuse prevention education. But what followed was depression,an eating disorder and a suicide attempt. I left all the fragmented sentences, misspelled words, because I wanted readers to hear the voice of a young child.. In it, Erin chronicles how she cultivated the strength to face her abuser and eventually found relief from years of emotional restlessness, while also igniting the beginnings of a new fearless journey. My abusers threatened me, and I believed them. Says Merryn: "[Ashley] made me pinky promise not to say anything. This fundraiser is organized by Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation (Caase). I didnt want to talk to anyone about this. But at age 11, Merryn's second nightmare began. My question to hotel or motel management would be, Why not tell? Erin decided at a young age to take a stand against evil and expose the silent epidemic of child sexual abuse in the spotlight. It was taught every year, and when a creepy van pulled up when I was 12 having a lemonade and the man put his hand out the window asking me to take the change those lessons immediately played back in my mind. For so many years I stayed angry and bitter towards him. After graduating with Bachelors and Masters Degrees in social work from Western Illinois and Aurora Universities in 2008 and 2009, Health Communications published her second book, Living for Today: From Incest and Molestation to Fearlessness and Forgiveness. (2012) Fox News Self - Author of 'An Unimaginable Act'. Every six minutes a child is sexually abused in the U.S. One in every 4 girls and 6 boys will be sexually assaulted before the turn 18 over 90% by a family member or friend. Meanwhile, the survivor who came up with the idea aftersufferingher own personal horrors shared her story with senators Tuesday. As I often tell people, our innocence was stolen, (our) trust taken, but the one thing we can reclaim as survivors is our voices. When Merryn eventually confided in Ashley about what had happened, her friend was not surprised; in fact, the scene was depressingly familiar to her. And for the next year and a half, repeatedly told me, This is our little secret. Erins Law has now going international with judge in Kerala India requiring Erins Law in the 2023-2024 school year. Two against one, somebody had to believe us.. Im very concerned about the possibility of grooming or the losing the innocence of our young children. You seem incredibly resilient. Erin says she believes everyone is born with a purpose and she has found hers through the events that have occurred in her life. In 2009 Texas passed a similar law but it was only a task force which did not mandate students be taught personal body safety, making Illinois the first state to require personal body safety education by law. I found hope and healing there and people that believed me. Erin Merryn Mar 2004 - Present18 years 7 months Chicago, IL Erin is an author, writer, and activist. Visiting Alaska this week, Erin Merryn is a long way from home, and even farther from the torturous past she endured as a sexually abused child. You've grown into a powerful voice who is bearing witness to the nation. With every passing week, and with every visit, Erin gets closer to her goal. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. Merryn travels the country bearing witness to what happened to her in hopes of encouraging states to enact laws requiring sexual abuse education in schools. Our guest speaker for the Luncheon will now be Erin Merryn, childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist, and the force behind Erin . Oh and of course my cousin's voice echoing through my head "No one will believe you, you have no proof, you will destroy this family, this is our secret!" Sponsored by Rep. Geran Tarr, D-Anchorage, HB 233 puts Alaska among the states considering "Erin's Law" in 2014. There, at her friends house, in the middle of the night, she was sexually assaulted by her friends uncle. He threatened her to stay silent so she kept her secrets locked away in her childhood diary. She was named Glamour Magazine Woman of the Year in 2012 and a People magazine Hero Among Us for her tireless work promoting Erin's Law nationwide with a mission to our keep children safe by educating them about personal body safety. In Living for Today, readers find that Erin cultivated the strength to face her abuser . Bucco introduced Erins Law (S-2145) on May 2. Young children tend to hear a lot of messages about avoiding interactions with people they don't know, when in reality they are far more likely to face harm from a relative or family friend. Buccos bill requires all school districts to incorporate age-appropriate sexual abuse awareness and prevention education in grades preschool through 12 as part of Core Curriculum Content Standards in Comprehensive Health and Physical Education. Silence Broken and Stigmas Shattered -- Help for Incest Survivors Is Here Fans of Erin Merryn's heart-wrenching debut memoir Stolen Innocence were left wondering at the end what would become of an emotionally fragile Erin after her confrontation with the reality of being a child of incest and molestation. See all See top. And it was at her house the very first overnight that I woke up to her uncle who lived in the home sexually abusing me," said Merryn. At age 11, Erin fell victim again. The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County, Ill. (there are 900 of these centers across America in every state), helped give me the courage in my forensic interview after my sister and I broke our silence to tell what had happened. The bill had already passed the House . I remember being so utterly confused.. By speaking up even when family is against the idea, it is freedom for a survivor and allows them to reclaim a piece of their lives back. Sharing those details can be difficult because as survivors, they bring us back to the place where we endured the horror. Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist Erin Merryn is the founder and president of Erin's Law. The man had threatened Merryn that hed hurt her more if she told anyone. Details Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. Merryn travels the country advocating for children who are victims of sexual assault. Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. The parents can then share the information that the schools provided with anyone else in their household. InDecember 2015 President Obama signed thefederal version of Erin's Law providing federal funding for schools to use. A week later, she got a reply. tax-exempt 501(c)(4) non-profit organization. She is dedicated to taking the stigma and shame away from sexual abuse and giving survivors the courage to speak up as she has. The path to justice for survivors of sexual assault is not an easy road. [7] She published her diary detailing her cousin's abuse and her own recovery, relapse and reconciliation in book form as Stolen Innocence in 2005. The abuse went on for years. (2016) Consider This Self - Author and Children's Advocate. The voice that was silenced for so long. 2019 TIME USA, LLC. You will be believed.. It is currently passed in 37 states as of January 2021. While these inhumane animals may live among us, there is one sexual abuse survivor who has made it her mission to empower children about these evil, sick people and teach them about body safety. The law was passed in a number of states,[7] with New York becoming the 37th in 2019. Use safe and unsafe touch. Lawmakers are in the dark about this. Merryn: My resilience took a lot of psychological help growing up as a kid, teen, and young adult. I came from a good home, two parents, good schools, safe neighborhood, etc. In just a few short years, she has already persuaded half the countryto pass similar versions of the law. Erin has appeared in People Magazine, Glamour Magazine, Time Magazine, The New York Times, Time Magazine, New York Post, The London Times, USA Today, Chicago Tribune, Daily Herald, among others. Erin Merryn, A Voice for the Voiceless. Mar 22, 2018 Erin Merryn, survivor of sexual abuse as a child and the driving force behind Erin's Law, speaks to an auditorium full of students at Metamora Township High School last Monday, March 12. I finally got, after seven months, what I had been looking for: an apology. Choosing to forgive has led me to live for today. Merryn worked with U.S. In April, 2010, Illinois State Senator Tim Bivins agreed to meet with Erin and he became the first state legislator to sponsor Erins Law. Since that first meeting, Erin has met with hundreds of state legislators, testified dozens of times in front of State Senate and House committees, served on several committees to draft bills and implement the new laws, plus speaks regularly to schools, agencies, conferences and media nationwide. The school, community organization, day care center, etc. Merryn: I reclaimed my voice in the Children's Advocacy Center. To a child who has been told so many threats to stay silent the idea of being taken to a police station can often scare a child. The shame is so overwhelming. Her courage breaking her silence allowed me to take a stand for both of us and be brave and tell her we can't keep this a secret, that we have to tell our parents. But Ashley begged her not to say anything because Richard had told her they would "lose the house" if the girls told anyone. In 2010, Merryn helped create Erin's Law, which was the first law to be passed in the U.S. that required children to be taught sexual abuse prevention in school. She started by pulling out that little pink diary. Merryn saidif parents are not comfortable, the bill allows parents toopt their kids out of the education. COURIER/JOELLYN CURRY Was this just bad luck? Before . She is not ashamed of the sexual abuse she endured as a child and, instead, feels inspired to put a face and voice on childhood sexual abuse. She was afraid she would be a burden to her cousin and that no one would believe her. The woman behind the bill, Erin Merryn visited Paul V. Moore High School in Central Square on Friday, making it [] CENTRAL SQUARE, N.Y. (WSYR-TV) Erin's Law its now in 37 states . Almost all states that have passed it are using the program, while some states are deciding how their schools will implement It into the curriculum.. Erin Elizabeth heard over the years from 11-13 "Nobody will believe you, you have no proof, you will destroy our large extended family, this is our secret don't tell anyone." She was also afraid she would lose her innocence. Merryn is now taking her fight to the state of Alabama. Merryn is an author, activist, and founder of Erin's Law. So far 27 states have passed Erins Law since 2010. 5 talking about this. All rights reserved. Unfortunately, children who are abused once are at even higher risk of being abused again by someone else because they are vulnerable and easy to prey on. According to the Office of the Monmouth County Prosecutors website, the only time that Megans Law information will be released to parents or families of students is if the school receives a Tier III high risk notice concerning an offender living within a 1,000-foot radius of their location. MORE: Cancer-surviving mom stays strong for her son. The family pressed charges against Brian, who ultimately admitted to three counts of sexual abuse. Erin Merryn, survivor of sexual abuse as a child and the driving force behind Erin's Law, speaks to an auditorium full of students at Metamora Township High School last Monday, March 12. She knew exactly what she was doing by asking simple questions on my life, friends, what I did for fun, and my family. Winds NW at 5 to 10 mph. Merryn: There is so much shame and stigma attached to sexual abuse. It allowed me to let go of the bitterness, anger and rage I had toward him and find the freedom and peace I longed for and the ability to turn this painful event into something positive. Alaska Dispatch: Do you think most lawmakers meaningfully comprehend the issue of sexual abuse? One personal safety lesson learned at school that actually helped me in life was "stranger danger." [3] According to her personal account, she told her parents about the latter after her sister confided that she had also been abused by the same relative. Alaska Dispatch: Resiliency can be an important factor in how well survivors of abuse cope and in whether they go on to lead a healthy, happy life. Maryland is the latest state, joining the crusade last month. Check out pictures, bibliography, and biography of Erin Merryn Alaska Dispatch: When you broke your silence and spoke up, was it frightening? Gov. IG: The_Cat_Named_Carrot.Ellen is Carrot's biggest fan. 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